On Synchronicities and Letting the Universe Work for You


I am a big believer in synchronicities. In fact, I am always on the lookout for them and I acknowledge and write them down whenever I notice them. Of course, the more I pay attention the more I notice them. I have been reading about the Law of Attraction since 2008 and through the years I have immersed myself in so much information that sometimes I think my brain is like a huge, old library. I remember reading long ago that synchronicities are your acknowledgement that the universe is listening to you. The problem is that most of us don’t take the time to notice them. We are so quick to say I want this, I want to that, please help me with, show me the right direction to take, etc., but we aren’t watching for the answers.

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Day

What we tend to forget is that the Universe is always listening. Always. It doesn’t matter if your thoughts and words are positive or negative, the universe is going to respond to you and bring you more of what you are focused on. If you are complaining, you are going to find more and more things to complain about.

We’ve all had mornings where something has gone wrong and we get in bad mood right?

Well what happens then?

You guessed it, the whole day goes downhill from here.

What you might not realise, is that it only takes a moment to stop, take a deep breath, and change your thoughts.

When you change your thoughts to something more positive your day will take a turn for the better. Try it next time you find yourself complaining or giving out. Just stop, take a deep breath and acknowledge that you are being negative. Decide then and there to change your thoughts. The easiest way I know of doing this is to force myself to smile or think of something I love. It could be a simple as looking at one of my family photographs, looking out at the beautiful views around my house, or remembering just how great my life is. Once you take the time to stop and change your thoughts, the universe will answer and respond. Try it and I guarantee you will notice a difference.

Synchronicities are Signs the Universe is Listening

The universe is listening and responding to everything we think and say. This is always happening. Our thoughts create energy and this energy is sent out into the universe where things of the same vibration are pulled towards it. If your energy vibration is negative, the universe will pull more negatives to you. If your energy vibration is positive, the universe will pull more positive experiences to you. It is simply a case of Like attracts Like. That’s it. What most people want to know though is:

How do I know the universe is listening?

Well I have a few examples to share.

My son does Kenpo karate and he really enjoys it. Part of the learning experience is about determination and focus and how practice is important. I had mentioned to my son that he would probably enjoy Rocky as this was all about a man who trained hard and won in the end. It was just a general comment during a conversation and I thought no more about it. Now as you know, Rocky is an old film and not something that is regularly shown on TV. Well two days after our conversation, Rocky appeared in the TV listings. I stopped immediately and thanked the Universe for listening to me and attracting to me what I was looking for. You see, I was looking to show my son Rocky and the Universe heard me and brought it to me.

A couple of days ago I had a really amazing synchronicity. I had mentioned to my life coach that I thought I had a limiting belief around the whole area of believing in myself and that I was questioning myself and my worth as a writer. I had mentioned that I felt a bit like a fraud because of lack of qualifications. I didn’t have a degree in psychology. I didn’t have a Masters in creative writing, and I wasn’t a qualified life coach either. I was questioning myself and my abilities and my self-worth. During our conversation we talked about validation and one of my last comments was that in the end real validation comes from my readers. I felt a little better after our discussion and did some EFT tapping on believing in myself later that evening.

In the middle of the night, my phone went notifying me of a message. I read it and was completely blown away. It was a message from someone from my youth thanking me for my blog and the information I share. She said she loves reading my blog and visits my site regular for positive energy. I couldn’t believe it. The universe had heard me and given me the validation I required. It was the proof I needed to believe in myself and the messages I share.

We may not think that the universe is listening but it always is. The one thing you need to do if you want to live a happy and fulfilling life is to make sure that what you are sending out to the universe is exactly what you want. A great tip to help you see what you are sending out is to ask yourself:

“What am I thinking?” “Are my thoughts positive?”

You can do this over and over throughout the day and if you find that you are being negative, stop, breathe, and change your vibration. It will take some practice to get used to doing this but once you start to notice the benefits, you will be more than happy to practice as often as you can.

Remember the saying, “smile and the world smiles with you, cry and you cry alone”? Well the universe will always smile with you and bring you more things to smile about too. Be the one who smiles and see your life transform.

I will leave you with this beautiful message:

Discover the joy of thinking positive thoughts and negativity will always fight a losing battle with you tweet this

Until next time,


Amanda J Evans is an Irish author. Amanda lives in Co. Meath, Ireland, with her husband and two children. She writes paranormal, fantasy, and romantic fiction. She has published works available on Amazon including her bestselling non-fiction title “Surviving Suicide: A Memoir From Those Death Left Behind”, a book that promotes suicide awareness. Amanda has also received a publishing contract for a number children’s story book with the first title coming in fall 2017.

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One comment on “On Synchronicities and Letting the Universe Work for You

  1. Wendy Tomlinson

    I love change your thoughts, change your day. I actually said that to someone today. So many people get stuck with an idea that if one or two things go wrong, the whole day is negative. Great advice Amanda.

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